Can Senior Couples Move Into Assisted Living Apartments Together?
Think about it, you and your partner have spent decades creating a life together, sharing meals, chores, and falling asleep to the same late-night TV shows. As a result, the thought of being apart is worse than any other aspect of the transition. Especially since one or both of you could use some extra assistance with daily tasks. So, the most important question for couples making this decision is: can you really stay together?
The short answer is “yes.” Many assisted living communities welcome couples, and the right one will make you feel at home and comfortable when you move in together. If you and your partner have been putting off discussing assisted living because you assumed it meant living apart, you can stop worrying now. It is possible and there’s more to it than just your imagination.
How Does It Work to Move Into Assisted Living Together?
Most good assisted living communities have apartments of various sizes because they understand that people live in all kinds of situations, including couples. You can find a floor plan that suits your current lifestyle, from large one-bedroom layouts to spacious two-bedroom apartments.
Choosing the right size apartment is just as important as any other thing you’ll consider. The most important thing is to find a location where you both feel comfortable and not cramped. A two-bedroom flat provides that space while keeping you under one roof. If you’re used to having your own space to read or relax, this is an excellent choice. If you’ve always preferred being close to someone, a one-bedroom layout may be ideal for you. The best communities will assist you in determining the best option for your specific needs and schedule.
What if You and Your Partner Require Different Types of Care?
This is a common and understandable concern among couples. You may be quite independent, but your partner requires assistance getting ready for the day and taking a shower. You may both require assistance, but in different ways and on different levels. The good news is that assisted living does not use a one-size-fits-all approach; rather, it creates care plans tailored to each individual.
You each receive your own care assessment, and the team creates a plan specifically for you based on your needs. That means your partner can assist and support you more directly. At the same time, you remain independent, even if you both live in the same flat and have similar daily lives. Living together does not require you to care for one another in the same way.
Will You Still Be Able to Have Quality Time Together?
Yes, and probably more than you realise. One of the most beneficial aspects of moving into an assisted living community as a couple is that many of the daily tasks that previously consumed your time are no longer required. You have a lot more time to spend together when you don’t have to cook every meal, keep the house clean, or fix things around the house.
As a bonus, you get to share new routines. Imagine waking up to a walk through beautiful gardens, eating breakfast prepared by a chef, and then being able to choose from a variety of activities and events that you can do together or alone. You can enjoy card games, happy hour, arts and crafts, or join a walking group. Instead of repeating the same old routine, these activities provide new experiences together.
What About Privacy and Your Personal Space?
Being a member of a community does not require you to give up your privacy as a couple. You still live in your flat. You close your own door, create your own schedule, and make joint decisions about how to spend your time. The community is simply there to assist you when you need it and to provide opportunities to meet new people when you want them.
This balance is crucial for couples. You are still free to spend time apart whenever you want. For example, one of you could attend class while the other reads in the library, or you could each form your own circle of friends in the community. You get to choose when to be together rather than being forced to be, which always feels better.
Ready to Begin the Next Chapter of Your Lives Together? Go to Bailey Pointe Assisted Living in Roxbury Park
Bailey Pointe Assisted Living at Roxbury Park believes that couples should stay together through all stages of life. Our assisted living community in Omaha, Nebraska, offers comfortable apartments, personalised care for each partner, and a welcoming social environment in which your relationship can thrive. Schedule a tour today to learn how you can move in together.
